At a recent breakfast hosted
by the Australian Institute of Management (AIM),
former Wallaby captain John Eales explained the
reason behind his new book, ‘Learning from Legends’,
a collection of interviews with sporting greats who
share their powerful stories of persistence through
adversity, the ability to deal with pressure and
maintain a balanced life.
500 corporate managers and business owners attended
the breakfast for one simple reason – inspiration.
Through my consulting business I often work with
clients in two very different stages of their
business; ‘starting out and raring to go’ and ‘tried
everything and losing steam’. It’s the latter who
sat in the audience seeking motivation that morning.
Many small business owners I meet feel the initial
excitement that inspired them to start their own
business is waning. The business that was going to
let them follow their passion, escape the rat race
and take control of their lives ends up controlling
them.
So what do you do when your business enthusiasm is
fading? Seek inspiration from those who know what
it’s like to work through the challenges and come
out the other end on-top.
Business gurus and sporting inspirations alike offer
three consistent pieces of advice that will help
re-ignite the spark in you and your business and
remind you why you started working for yourself in
the first place.
Believe in yourself
Self-doubt is a crippling success factor. If you
don’t believe in yourself then why should your
customers, investors or even those supporting you in
your business such as family and friends believe in
you either?
Many clients say they start with a strong belief in
their abilities and ideas but little by little their
confidence erodes as things don’t go the way they
planned.
Australian Netball Captain Liz Ellis says, “You’ve
got to have a huge amount of belief in yourself to
stand up when something goes wrong and make it right
the next time you get an opportunity.”
Believing in yourself builds perseverance in times
of adversity because you know in your heart of heart
that you’re on the right track. You may fumble from
time to time, but on the whole, you believe in the
reason why you started your business in the first
place and are willing to work through any challenges
because you know there is light at the end of the
tunnel.
If failure is causing your self-confidence to fade
then the next piece of advice allows you to see
‘failure’ in a whole new light.
Understand that failure = success
If you think failure is a ‘bad’ thing, think again.
Master of business reinvention and management guru
Tom Peters believes failure = success and even
encourages his large corporate clients to reward
unsuccessful business attempts, “In the current
Disruptive Age, we will – by definition – be
screwing up far more frequently and far more
embarrassingly than ever before. Enterprises that
tolerate or even celebrate failure…that encourages
the bold bid for greatness that fizzles or goes down
in flames…will succeed.”
By no means is Peters suggesting you go down with
the ship, instead he’s encouraging you to be bold,
follow your passion and believe that what you’re
doing is right for your business. If it’s not, you
can always change the situation with another choice
and learn from your mistake. The key, don’t wallow,
as that will affect your confidence and the ability
to make your next brave move.
Everybody is afraid of failing, so much so, that
some would rather take no action at all in case they
don’t succeed. But the fear itself is a barrier to
your success. If you’re not happy with the way your
business is going then you have to do something
courageous. Remember, they say the definition of
insanity is doing the same thing over and over again
and expecting a different result – you need to take
different steps to achieve a different result to the
one you’re unhappy with.
One of my favourite quotes from Eales at the
breakfast was, “It’s how you prepare when nothing
matters which determines how well you’re prepared
when everything matters.” And failure, learning from
your mistakes, persistence and remembering why you
started your business in the first place are all
part of that preparation.
Be passionate and positive about your business
and avoid ‘success strippers’
Passion is one of the primary reasons why people
start their own business. It may be passion for an
idea, money or achieving a more balanced life, there
is always a motivator to why people create their own
opportunity.
Passion is an excellent driver and necessary
ingredient for success as it keeps you going when
things get challenging. Do you think champion
swimmers are passionate about getting up at 4am in
the middle of winter to go training? Absolutely not,
but it’s part of the process in achieving what
they’re really passionate about – winning a gold
medal, breaking a world record or improving on their
personal best.
Being passionate and positive are two key
ingredients to business success. Not only is it
important to watch our thoughts to ensure they have
a positive intent but we must also be mindful to
avoid ‘success strippers’ who also inhibit success.
I’m sure you know them, they’re the, “You can’t do
that.” or “Why don’t you just get a ‘real’ job?”
bunch.
Australian Cricket Coach John Buchanan acknowledged
that in order for him to succeed he had to have the
right attitude and the right people around him, “To
actually get near my potential, I needed some other
support around me, I needed people that properly
understood me and helped me to understand myself
better than what I did.” Would he have gained the
success he did with ‘success strippers’ as his
support network?
Author of number one ‘New York Times’ and ‘Wall
Street Journal’ business book, ‘What Got You Here
Won't Get You There’ Marshall Goldsmith states
‘Negativity, or “Let me explain why that won’t work”
characteristics are major achievement inhibitors
because people don’t want to be around negative
people and that includes customers. He suggests
monitoring your statements and thoughts as well as
the attitudes of those around you to make sure you
stay clear of “negatron” views and people who push
you down instead of pull you up.
Remember, there is always light at the end of the
tunnel and if you can’t see it, look to others for
inspiration.
Belinda Crosbie is a
marketing and business consultant, mentor and
freelance journalist. She can be contacted by
emailing
Belinda@SiriuslyBright.com . Special thanks to
John Eales for his inspirational book quoted in
parts of this article.
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